This is a really interesting post, Mouse. In my case, I have the "just hold me like a baby and sing me a lullaby" problem. I go through long periods of time now without wanting sex because I am in little girl mode-- and a little girl wouldn't want that. I, too, am working on my drive becoming more mature, but in a different way. I never had this problem in the past, but that is because I would just go form person to person-- never had someone who I actually wanted to take care of me. Thanks for the insight here.