Thread: Discussing with a T the cause of or blame for ruptures
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Default Sep 12, 2022 at 08:32 AM
 
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Originally Posted by Brown Owl 2 View Post
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For me a rupture means that my early trauma feelings got triggered...

I also define rupture that way, for myself.

My therapist and I had a rupture in June. She really did take full responsibility for it, which I appreciated. I thought I felt a resolution, but lately the haunting feeling of the rupture has returned. I'm finding myself stuck with regard to overcoming the feeling of betrayal - even though I do believe that I had a very minor role in it (it was primarily on her, however).

I am planning to speak with her in today's session, but I'm finding it difficult to truly feel that the rupture is resolved and that I can trust her as I did prior - even though she has "owned" it.

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