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Originally Posted by Open Eyes
Also, when someone is cheating they try to blame things on the person they are cheating on.
Your wife may never be happy with anyone. It’s hard on the person who was willing to love and care when the partner is not committed and takes things out on the one who doesn’t deserve it. It hurts too be in the position you describe. And when there are children you can’t just walk away and abandon them. Children don’t understand this and tend to think they are not loved.
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My Children are being affected by this:
My 23 yr old Daughter is living there temporarily and sees what her mom is doing/not doing. She's secretly going to move early next year.
My 19yr old Son (Stepson) Sides with me and doesn't agree with how she is dealing with it.
My 12yr old Son says she is not home a lot of the time and doesn't really talk to him.
My daughter is upset with both of us for some reasons I don't agree with but will respect so she wants time to herself to "do her". I did tell her that we will need to talk at some point about these issues.