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Originally Posted by black-roses
Well I mean that's not the only advice she gives me that seems a bit well bad at least. She said I shouldn't work as a nurse because of my lack of concentration but when I suggest I could work as a journalist or a writer she's like you need concentration for that. So basically in the end I'm left with no options. I mean it's not just her that tells me what jobs I can and can't do but anyway it's taught me that not everyone supports you and you should support yourself and also just because someone is your family doesn't mean you have to care what they think. I sure as hell don't care what strangers think they say I'm desperate I be like I get more than you but your sister saying that you can't do a job well that sucks.
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your sister sounds so negative.. I would just start ignoring her.
I'm in the same boat as you are right now. I'm very lonely.. And I would love to have a boyfriend that reciprocate right back to me.. I'm not in it for the "reproducing ritual" although my clocks are ticking, and I'm not getting any younger. I would love to have a kid, but I refuse to have one without a relationship stability between mother and father. I desire companionship.. someone to talk to and to hangout with. I desire a family atmosphere... unfortunately I do not get a long with my father side nor my mother side of the family so I pretty much don't have a family structure going on. I lack the support system that I need so I pretty much have to self support myself... which is pretty difficult non the less.
Most important reason why I want a boyfriend is that I desire love and affection... doesn't have to be sex, although I guess sex is also part of showing love to your partner.