It seems like it comes down to the basics. Communication is the #1 issue. It usually always boils
down to particular reasons that an argument takes place. What are you REALLY arguing about ?
People usually beat around the bush because they don't want to be TRUTHFUL about the issues
causing the dispute. The problem is mostly the emotional reaction , response , or reply we give
rather than a rational thought out response. Do we even have to respond at all ? Walk away.
Only mature adult human beings can communicate their feelings and truthfulness in an unemotional
way. Go somewhere private and think this whole drama show out in a rational , realistic way.
Wishing you the best....