All very true. He is acting like the victim now. And yes it’s all my fault. He won’t forgive and let go. Geez. I forgave him for an infidelity. All I did was suspect something was up with this woman sending him a package. Sure I called him a liar, but what was I to think?? A random package from a woman he hadn’t spoken to in years yet she sends him a package with a love note and knows our address??? Naturally it seemed suspect and I didn’t trust him at his word.