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Old Sep 16, 2022, 05:31 PM
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Originally Posted by Have Hope View Post
I do not know. I cannot make waves until after my father's service, so I have to keep the peace. I promised my mother. How else am I supposed to handle it?
I’d not be going to a party if I want to end the marriage. I’d go to something crucial to keep a peace with grieving mother, that’s I understand.

I’d be absolutely livid if my husband went with me to parties while plotting exact day to leave me. I knew a guy whose ex wife went to a fancy banquet with him while having exact day of moving out planned. He had no clue. It really messed him up. He felt like an idiot.

I’d do only what’s absolutely necessary to keep peace. Party isn’t necessary