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Originally Posted by divine1966
I’d not be going to a party if I want to end the marriage. I’d go to something crucial to keep a peace with grieving mother, that’s I understand.
I’d be absolutely livid if my husband went with me to parties while plotting exact day to leave me. I knew a guy whose ex wife went to a fancy banquet with him while having exact day of moving out planned. He had no clue. It really messed him up. He felt like an idiot.
I’d do only what’s absolutely necessary to keep peace. Party isn’t necessary
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That's your opinion, and I respect it but I have to do what I feel is right for myself. If I do not go to the party with my husband, it will blow up against my mother's request. And this is a plan we've had for a couple of weeks. I am looking forward to seeing friends. I was going to go alone as of today because he was fighting with me - yet again. So, right now we're at peace and tomorrow we could be fighting again.