Yaowen ........ Just want to say that you made some excellent points. Your post
is worth reading a few times. I'm just going to respond here to one major point
you make. And that is about gratitude. There's nothing that brings you down to
earth more solidly than being grateful. Now , that does not mean you can't expand
your life and want to do or desire more. But regardless of success or failure , we are grounded ,
as long as we have gratitude in our life.