He is love bombing me now. He is back to his affectionate, loving self and there's peace again between us.

I have NO idea how to go about this. Since I promised my mother, I cannot let on that I am unhappy OR about to leave him. I cannot rock the boat at all before my dad's service. A promise is a promise, although it places me in a really bad position.

I don't even know what to do. Maybe the right time will present itself - in the next argument or fight between us. Maybe I need to wait until the right time does arise.

And, I am not too concerned with how HE feels or will feel. After all, he has been abusive all over again, he has insulted and demeaned me repeatedly when fighting, I am stuck in the abuse cycle with him, and I must get away & soon. It's just so much harder when he's in the love bombing phase, & when things are calm and fine between us. It makes it THAT much harder.