UPDATE:

So Kate ask me to hang out on Saturday, we went to a caffee and talk for 2 hours.
She brought me a little cake from the caffee and smoothie which was nice of her.

As we spoke it was good, she told me about her family issues and how she is on anti depressents.
Kate told me how this guy she went out with for 2 months used her for sex.
And I was connecting the dots because she always told me she was going out with guy and that guy and I realised this guy was the guy she spoke to months ago and then reconnected.
It started to make all sense now.

I mention about our art class and told her how it got too much with the socail media and it was taking over my life and the art that was important to me. I said I felt sad and alone.
Instead of empathize she said to me cut and dry
"Well I told you work comes first for me"
I was a bit stunned what she said. I don't even recalled or remember her telling me this.
I told my sister and she knows me I can recall a converstation word by word. And if she did say that my sister knows I would've been upset and tell her. My partner agreed with me as well.

So I felt a bit confused and started questioning my self.

I told her how I felt like I was doing everything and she to me up front up "Yeah it's true you did everything" I said to her "So you knew" and she said "Yes it's not secert".

I was shocked and angry at her. I didn't show the emotions or spoke out. It seem my emotion delayed and it was only when I got home what she said was ruminating in my mind and I was wondering why I was bothered by it.

I question and wondered but why would you continue to let your friend to do everything? don't you feel guilty?

Thoughts?