Thanks for your feedback. About him not knowing what he did...he knows. He absolutely knows. This wasn't a little thing he did. I posted about it in another thread, but anyway, he knows exactly why I'm angry. And I guess I'm irritated now because I know him. If he's using the word "stonewalling" then I know he's googling my "behavior" and making all kinds of assumptions about me. He probably read that when you're being stonewalled, the best thing to do is wait it out and not give in to what the stonewaller wants, which is control. Which means he has concluded that the right thing to do is stay quiet and not apologize and judge me for refusing to communicate. The not apologizing is fine, but the judging is infuriating. I hate his smugness and false superiority. He has always created toxic environments in his group and then acted like the absent-minded professor who means so well and doesn't understand why people can't get along.