It was just never her priority. Neither that art class nor the friendship.

As about her having time to do these extra duties. Just because someone bakes cakes or dating, it doesn’t mean they have time to handle s second job. I’d have an issue if people thought that if I on my only day off I am baking cake, I should take on a second job or do XYZ. .People have rights to date and rest and do household chores and choose whatever activity on their time off. So I don’t believe it fair to say she has all this extra time.

What I blame her for is agreeing to take on this second job but then never speaking up that it’s just too much, not thanking you for extra work and not communicating clearly. And you had to speak up that you can’t do all this alone. For all she knew maybe you enjoyed extra duties