Honestly some marriages are just like that. There are ton of people who fight like cats and dogs and get quite nasty with each other but then hugging and kissing the next day like nothing happened! They might live 50 years like this. That’s just how their marriage is. My parents had the kind of marriage. Growing up like that that’s all I knew. Didn’t want it in my life but I really thought that’s how all marriages are.

I mean if there are no kids to learn wrong ways and get damaged by turmoil and drama, then who’s to say you can’t stay in a marriage like this? No one can tell you to leave. You are two adults. It’s perfectly fine to stay.

Now if you can’t decide I think it depends if you are better off with him or without. Which one makes you happier. Be with him or be without. Then base your decision on that.

Whenever I felt I am better without someone, then it was relatively easy to leave. Regardless if it’s legal marriage of other arrangements