kebsfroggy - i love your avatar, it cracks me up! (((hugs)))

nowhere,

yes! i see this clearly.

probably why i had difficulties with my timing in life. the cart before the horse thing. being impatient - missing the shot. not concentrating on my moves - missing the shot. going way too fast - missing the shot. not seeing the route in it's entirety - missing the shot. not having set the goal to make the shot - missing the shot.

i can go on and on.

fortunately, life has slowed me down enough to take things in as they really are and respond according - thereby - making a few shots in a row here and there.

thanks for sharing this very clear picture with us.
it certainly helps with one of my main problems - timing.

peace,
night