Dear T,
Thanks for a good 5-year anniversary session today. And being gracious about the gift, even if it isn't quite your aesthetic. It seemed like you understood what it meant to me and reacted accordingly. The same with the anniversary in general, as you know that I'm a date person, even though you aren't. Hm, I guess it all comes down to you putting my needs and comfort first today. I'll get you a plant for the next one though!

And the handshake was nice. (Though I'm puzzled that you thought we'd sanitize after instead of before?) I'm hoping you might be willing to continue with those, but if you aren't, like maybe if it would just be an occasional thing (like I'd need to specifically request it), it's OK.

Love,
LT