It does feel like he would gaslight me. He's not purely malicious, but he just hates drama and confrontation and I feel that whatever I say, he'll try to reassure me that everything is fine rather than listen to my legitimate grievances and concerns. I don't want to have a pointless conversation with him that he'll just forget about because he's thick skinned but which will leave me wrecked for weeks.

I can't leave...yet...