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Originally Posted by velcro003
You are right, I do hate it. haha. I am not sure I can tell her how I feel. I can not talk to my T about our relationship. It took until 6 months ago to say I cared about her. And that was at the end of a session after me freaking out the whole time I said it.
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Hm...if you're still feeling that way about talking to her about the relationship after 7 years, that seems like a bad sign to me, honestly. About the relationship, I mean.
Is it something you could possibly do in writing (like writing, typing something up and handing it to her)? Or over email? If you're thinking of leaving or at least taking a break over it, then it seems worth at least trying to address it.
It doesn't seem right for her to be reducing your session times by 10 minutes if you've been doing an hour all this time. And also to be shifting the time, where you could be penalized by other clients running over.
Though I wonder if she'll really hold to the ending at 50 minutes thing? At one point, ex-MC said he was going to have to start ending his sessions at 45 minutes, when he generally gave us an hour, sometimes more. I panicked a bit. That lasted approximately a week or two before he was back seeing us for an hour.
I would be upset by all this, too, both the change in time and the fact that she said it was to give more time to her family. I'd understand intellectually that my T needed more family time, but emotionally, I'd struggle with it.