So he was discussing his marriage and your shortcomings with a female coworker. Not a long time trusted friends, close family or a therapist. Fairly new coworker. How completely inappropriate

I suspect he once again discusses his marriage with random women. I think he mentioned to someone somewhere on Facebook that he’s having marital problems. That’s why this woman from Facebook sent him gifts in support so to speak. No one sends random gifts like this. If it was about 9/11, why send it now? Not last year?

Maybe he won’t get too chummy with this woman as she is too far but perhaps there would be another woman conveniently there to comfort him

Why isn’t he talking about what bothers him in therapy? That’s what he’s in therapy for. So he just chit chats in therapy, but shares his true feelings about his marriage and you with other women. Not good