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Old Sep 20, 2022, 12:22 PM
Rive. Rive. is offline
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I think that my behaviour impacted and weakened her feelings for me.
I agree with this as a plausible explanation for the perceived (emotional) distance that you feel from your girlfriend. With the distance, she might be better able to process, emotionally, the impact on herself. As you remarked yourself being clingy, distrustful, initiating fights etc. does impact on the other partner and tends to push people away.

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What do you guys think? How should I act now? Should I talk to her or should I just wait how things will develop? Or should I try to put more energy in to our relationship so that she gets reminded that I am still the one she fell in love with once?
The best thing you can do is work on yourself and your insecurities. Put your energy on your own self-growth. That is the best you can do for yourself and your relationship. I would not force the issue on your girlfriend as that might push her away. Prove yourself through your actions instead.
Thanks for this!
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