Sadly I am in the same boat. I have been ghosted, stood up, removed, and no responses.

Since I am IT, let me help you on some things here.

The majority of the applications out there play on your insecurities. They also send fake people to your inbox if you don't have a subscription to entice you to sign up. Only for you not to hear anything from those people. Some will tell you that you have a "message" and in order to see it, you have to sign up. The apps play on the potential of love and so people buy into them.

So don't let that get to you. I also find myself internalizing the same thoughts. I have to tell myself that these are not true at all because they aren't. I know I am worth it and you should know that about you. Don't let the lack of responses ruin you like that. You got dis gurl!!!!!