you know, i've found that even the worst relationships can be hard to eliminate. But rem, if you know that it's time to move on, then you need to do it...the "hanging out", "fighting" and having intimacy just because you both happen to be there...is really damaging to the psych...after i left, it happened a few times and i found that the "post" feeling was really bad...i felt my self worth dropping like a stone...is there a possibility that YOU could move out? sorry you're going through this painful and not always simple transition..but i can relate..love grace HANG ON IT WILL GET BETTER!