I just spoke with my mom. I’m going to give him the option to skip the dinner with my family and see if he wants to just come to the service but in his own car. I know that a full afternoon and night is going to be too much for him to handle. His mom is basically dying.

Although I still visited with his mother the day after my father died, so there’s that.

My sister says I cater to him - and that’s because he demands it.