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MayApples
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Default Sep 21, 2022 at 03:56 PM
 
I'm dealing with a friend who means well but uses passive aggressive stonewalling behavior when she is either upset or wants to take a break, instead of saying I'm taking a break for awhile. Then she turns around and sends Reels or links only, possibly trying to act connected still. I don't understand her and I've tried to give the friendship a break and walk away for a bit to give her space. However, I'm not ok with this pattern she has established. I believe she is illustrating a point, because I know she does this also to her family when they've done something wrong. I have no idea of what I did and I'm not going to play games with her by asking. I tried to check in today, after 5 days, to see how she is. She said nothing. So I'm trying to deal with this by letting her behave however she wants. It's not my problem but it does hurt my feelings and that, and stress from life in general right now, is why I'm here. Glad to get this off my chest.
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