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Old Sep 21, 2022, 07:28 PM
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@Amomme welcome to MSF My Support Forums. I am sorry you are looking at a divorce. It is difficult no matter how you look at it.

Before you sign anything hire a lawyer. You could sign everything over to him and not even know it. Unfortunately that happens.

I think the more assets you have the more it would seem you need your own lawyer to look out for your interests. If they have savings and 401Ks and IRAs then it would be good to have a legal adviser to know what you are entitled to.

You can say I do not want to fight you but I need someone to help me understand all this.

You are fortunate in a way that your children are almost over 18. Sometimes a divorce agreement the dad pays for part of college expenses. Again these are things that a divorce lawyer could tell you better.

Hope you get the support you are looking for. @CANDC
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