Geez. Why do I even come here? I’m looking for SUPPORT, not judgement!

I said in my OP to be gentle.

I’m doing what is best given his limitations. Did I ever say it’s acceptable? Did I ever say any of it is? NO!!!!!

I’m doing what is best for me and my family. And if he’s going to be an ahole and a mope and complain about going I don’t want him there.

I’m divorcing him soon anyways. Why the judgements??