Many things are said in the heat of the moment. Then again there's usually a grain
of truth in these statements that come out in anger or said just to hurt you. I think
what's more important are the follow up actions . Was there an apology afterwards ,
or were these things said continually ? I can tell you that you never REALLY know the
person your living with. It could be a 50 year lie ! Once you realize this fact you can then
move on with your life. I'm sure they're were some good times so don't consider it a
10 year loss. Live , learn , and then FORGET . Hopefully you'll meet someone genuine and
honest in the future.