Well if she drinks, then it explains a lot. Her not being drunk doesn’t mean she is not an alcoholic. Plus more they drink more they need to get drunk. In fact the fact that’s if she’s not drunk after a bottle of wine might indicate that she had drinking problem. People who don’t drink would be wasted drinking a bottle. Her body got used to it. How’s she affording to buy alcohol if she doesn’t work. I’d cut her access to money immediately. There’s zero reason she should buy 7-10 bottles a week.

Alcoholics have memory gaps. And her rages likely caused by her having to increase alcohol dependency. She is getting more addicted and more tolerant to the amount of alcohol

You didn’t cause it and you can’t fix it. Very sad. I
Knew there’s more to the story with her