you're in my heart and in my prayers...as is your mother, and the whole family....this kind of health crisis really tests a family and i know the meeting tomorrow will be a challenge for all concerned...Just try to hang on to the bigger picture and the value of having family that is willing to continue trying at all. (when a family member of mine became disabled, we were shocked at the number of members who weren't interested in participating in the care and rehabilitation at all)...they just stepped away...But at least you have some family who are keeping the discussion and options open..despite everyones human limitations...And Believe Me...That is Not As Common As It Should Be....anyway..i'll be praying for you and yours tomorrow (whether that's considered PC or not) and asking that the powers that be comfort you and guide you in making the right decisions. love grace.