I’ve been feeling more comfortable with people who are at least at the same level when not in a “lower” level (especially psychologically speaking and also the background, character and mood). It seems as in my country, you had a plus with being fun, extrovert, out-going. I always felt very inferior in this regard.
From time to time, I wonder myself about this tendency of mine. And there’s always a reason why.
I want to go out of my comfort zone in this sense and see whether now that I’m overcoming my insecurities and don’t care about these differences anymore, how it goes.
Maybe, you could work on this point, too. Which your fears are, what you are missing that makes you feel that other people are better or a higher level than you, when this is not true. Everybody is different but we are the same in the end. Equals. I do believe it truly. And if someone thinks I’m less than them for whatever reason, whatever…they are simply mistaken. To be honest.
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Social Anxiety and Depression. Cluster C traits.
Trying to improve my English. My apologies for errors and mistakes in advance.
Mankind is complex: Make deserts blossom and lakes die. ( GIL SCOTT-HERSON)
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