Agreed - and he should have been with me, but I insisted that he not go.

And on that note, I just told him via text that:

(1) I am no longer in love with him
(2) that I want a divorce
(3) that the relationship is unhealthy for me
(4) that I cannot live with the mistrust
(5) that I am not happy in this relationship and have not been for some time now.

So, once again, I am confronting him with a divorce.