People always post junk on the internet. I don’t know if it’s necessarily a stalker. Someone saying they owe you money might follow up with “what’s your bank account, I’ll transfer it to you”. Might be a scammer.

I know some people are totally fascinated with social media but I think it’s a waste of time. You can have friends and hobbies and social life and romance and be successful and happy and never have account on any of those sites.

You also need to understand how this things works. I had Instagram account for like a hot minute that I deactivated because: I created it so I could see posts of new art by a specific artist. I never made a single post or comment, had no picture or any identifying info on my profile, nothing. And yet some very old acquittance from 40 years ago found me on there. How??? One time I was contacted by a high school boyfriend. Again there is NOTHING identifying. So that was the end of it for me.

Nothing is private. If you want private life, get off social media and get busy with people in real life.

Don’t post questionable stuff. It always comes back to you. It’s looking for trouble