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Old Sep 29, 2022, 06:35 AM
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Yes I’d say it’s probably connected to the emotional abuse in your childhood. You are very likely right that’s why you feel bad about drawing boundaries too. You likely came to associate love with abusive behaviour. How can you be to blame for that?

It sounds like an excellent plan to get a good therapist skilled in childhood emotional abuse/codependency.
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Thanks for this!
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