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Old Sep 30, 2022, 07:25 AM
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Originally Posted by Marie123 View Post
Happy, happy Birthday (mine was yesterday).....yes go out and celebrate! Remember anything he says....is a lie; he will continue to try and convince you what a nice guy he is. Also remember, abuse is a CHOICE. Most abusers only pick one one person (the one they are supposed to love), they don't do it to others, because they know others...would not put up with it.
It's also that they have to maintain the facade of being a good person to the entire outside world, except to the person they supposedly love... it's all behind closed doors for a reason.

But, now, he's trying to convince ME of what a good person he is. Not happening.

And I'm convinced he will continue to abuse the next woman. It's not just me - it's any woman, he will abuse.

And thanks for the happy bday wishes - happy bday to you too!!!

I will go out and will have some fun tonight, for sure. I'm having lunch with mom.
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Thanks for this!
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