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Originally Posted by Marie123
Happy, happy Birthday (mine was yesterday).....yes go out and celebrate! Remember anything he says....is a lie; he will continue to try and convince you what a nice guy he is. Also remember, abuse is a CHOICE. Most abusers only pick one one person (the one they are supposed to love), they don't do it to others, because they know others...would not put up with it.
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It's also that they have to maintain the facade of being a good person to the entire outside world, except to the person they supposedly love... it's all behind closed doors for a reason.
But, now, he's trying to convince ME of what a good person he is. Not happening.
And I'm convinced he will continue to abuse the next woman. It's not just me - it's any woman, he will abuse.
And thanks for the happy bday wishes - happy bday to you too!!!
I will go out and will have some fun tonight, for sure. I'm having lunch with mom.