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Originally Posted by Have Hope
It's like the more he talks, the angrier I get and the more I lash out at him, accusing him of things. Yesterday he tried to claim he has "no one to talk to", even though I see him on FB instant messenger on and off all day long. You can see when someone is active on messenger - it tells you so. So he's lying. I tell him he's likely talking to single women, and he denies it. I don't believe for one second that he wouldn't immediately start trying to flirt and hook up with a single woman right now. We have an agreement that while we're living together, we won't date anyone. But I just do not trust him. Especially when he says he has no one to talk to, yet he's on Facebook messenger all day?!?
I have to back off and exit from all the drama. I cannot take it and it's just too much negative energy spent.
He leaves tomorrow for 5 days - YAY.
And today is my birthday - oh joy. I am trying to turn this into a good day for myself. I am going out tonight to celebrate with a girlfriend.
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So he sounds (being on messenger all day) like he immediately plugs gaps with other people? He says he’s lonely and that might be true, he might never have genuine connection with people, just using them to plug gaps in his day. Well done for spotting that pattern.
I hope you have a peaceful birthday and like RDM says maybe mute the phone (you can check later for important messages) to give yourself a break.