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Old Sep 30, 2022, 07:37 AM
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Originally Posted by Discombobulated View Post
So he sounds (being on messenger all day) like he immediately plugs gaps with other people? He says he’s lonely and that might be true, he might never have genuine connection with people, just using them to plug gaps in his day. Well done for spotting that pattern.

I hope you have a peaceful birthday and like RDM says maybe mute the phone (you can check later for important messages) to give yourself a break.
Not only that, but he's outright lying to me by saying he has no one to talk to. BS. He's on messenger all day and I can see him active on there. He's full of it. And yes, it's probably not even a genuine connection.

And thanks so much. I am trying to minimize any drama and negativity today. People are sending me happy bday messages on FB and my girlfriend was blowing up my phone this morning with her own drama. I need to step back from the phone, yes, and just enjoy the day...
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Thanks for this!
Discombobulated