My parents hid a massive secret from me which was very harmful in many ways and the father had many affairs (and more) which he hid to protect his ''reputation''.

I'm bothered by lies too. I'm also not a fan of someone who is ''brutally'' ''honest'' though as although that might be Their ''truth'' it isn't always the only ''reality''. (labelling and name calling being one example)

Of course some of the habitual liars also engage freely in tossing muck around in the form of name calling. Why are they ''always right''?