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Old Oct 02, 2022, 04:58 AM
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Originally Posted by RollercoasterLover View Post
I'm glad you are getting a chance to feel balanced emotionally and mentally.

Just a tip for you, record the feeling you have now in whatever writing you do as a reminder when you are tempted by manipulation from your husband of how you feel moving away from him. I know you didn't ask for this advice. Personally, I think it's very helpful to record all your feelings so you can focus on moving forward toward happiness.

Enjoy the peace and quiet. You've earned the break from the drama.
Thank you, @RollercoasterLover.

I did record these feelings - I think you're right that it's good to write this down as I feel and experience the good feelings again, and to re-read it, especially when he tries to manipulate me again.
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