@RollercoasterLover, I can tell he's on messenger, because messenger lets you know when someone is on. I"ve blocked him now on messenger so that I'm not tempted to watch him on there and to protect myself from getting upset.

@divine1966, I am pretty sure he's talking to women on there and is trying to gain sympathy or attention. That's what narcs do - they discard you and immediately find a new target. Although, of course I don't REALLY know - it's my guess because this is what he did the last time we were breaking up. He immediately found someone who would take sympathy upon him.

@AzulOscuro, I think it's entirely appropriate for members here to dislike and talk poorly about my abusive narcissistic husband. He has abused me, he has cheated on me, he has lied to me numerous times, he has insulted and demeaned me, he has gaslighted me , he has used me, and he is just plain awful, deep down. Most members here are aware of the entire story with him and this has gone on and on for years. I don't think it's unfair or wrong for people to respond to all the bad and awful things he has done to me, in support of me.