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Originally Posted by will19
I prefer not to receive any kind of unsolicited advice. Reading things like this only hurts me. I've tried things over the years and they all didn't work. I don't appreciate being reminded that "being alone is not good for me". I know that and I didn't choose that way of life..
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I am sorry that my question hurt you!
My claim about that it is "not good to feel alone", on the other hand, was related to my own experience of former aloneness and how it helped me to join certain "clubs". I could have been more clear about that my "knowledge" of that it is not good to feel alone was based on personal experience. I did not recommend any specific "clubs" to you, but let the question be open and was specific about that I did not want to "be rude" by asking ... if you could use it (so my comment took care of the aspect that you could feel it otherwise than me).
I am so glad that you have specified your borders for what is okay and not. I appreciate honest people.
I'll do my best to remember that advice against loneliness is not wanted by you!