My husband is acting like a lost, hurt puppy right now. His mother is worse, she refuses to eat and she could die of starvation. They have to transfer her to a hospital now and force feed her.

He tells me he is "lost and confused" and in "agony" over us, his mother and his hurt back.

How can he be confused about us? I have made myself 100% clear: I have stated that once again, he's lost my trust due to more broken promises, and I no longer am in love with him. What's so confusing about that?

Why does he have to say these things to me? I think he's trying to pull on my sympathy strings and manipulate me into feeling sorry for him and for what I am "doing to him".

AND, I showed an old boyfriend (whom I ran into recently) a photo of my husband from our wedding. He said he looks like a total douchebag and he can tell. How come I couldn't pick up on this????