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Originally Posted by Rose60
I am sorry that my question hurt you!
My claim about that it is "not good to feel alone", on the other hand, was related to my own experience of former aloneness and how it helped me to join certain "clubs". I could have been more clear about that my "knowledge" of that it is not good to feel alone was based on personal experience. I did not recommend any specific "clubs" to you, but let the question be open and was specific about that I did not want to "be rude" by asking ... if you could use it (so my comment took care of the aspect that you could feel it otherwise than me).
I am so glad that you have specified your borders for what is okay and not. I appreciate honest people.
I'll do my best to remember that advice against loneliness is not wanted by you!  |
I have join clubs and other things a lot over many years. I just came up empty each time. And then it got to the point that I just gave up. It hurt more getting out there to try and fail than to not do anything and feel bad about it. I don't know what it is that it seems like people are not crazy about me. As of now, I'm trying to be content in being alone. I had put up with a lot of crap from others so much.
I personally think it's best to never give advice when you are not asked, especially on here. It's rude. I would suggest for you to look up and read articles about giving unsolicited advice. I'm sorry if I'm coming on harsh. It's just that I've had this as an issue for so many years and I don't know how many times I have received advice about it, which is annoying.