Force feeding is absolutely illegal. They don’t force feed in the hospital. Your husband tells you scary stories which simply aren’t true. It’s typical for elderly in a very bad shape to stop eating or at limit food intake. Often digestion of food is too much of a strain on a body and makes them sick.

Usually refusal to eat is a big sign of rapid declining in elderly and possibly on their way to the end As sad as the whole thing is sadly it’s a progression of things. It’s not easy to watch parents deteriorate with age but no need to act ridiculous and make up stories. His mothers doctor should be able to explain what’s happening without adding dramatic effects

I don’t know if one can judge by looks. But judging by his actions prior and during the wedding and during honeymoon, he most certainly is an a$$hole. I thought it was obvious.