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Originally Posted by will19
I have join clubs and other things a lot over many years. I just came up empty each time. And then it got to the point that I just gave up. It hurt more getting out there to try and fail than to not do anything and feel bad about it. I don't know what it is that it seems like people are not crazy about me. As of now, I'm trying to be content in being alone. I had put up with a lot of crap from others so much.
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I am sorry that it did not work for you. It worked for me. This subject between you and me is passed now. I have said I am sorry, but you haven't even thanked me for trying to be kind ... I will be happy if we can use normal politeness after this, instead of making a mountain ot of molehills.
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Originally Posted by will19
I personally think it's best to never give advice when you are not asked, especially on here. It's rude. I would suggest for you to look up and read articles about giving unsolicited advice. I'm sorry if I'm coming on harsh. It's just that I've had this as an issue for so many years and I don't know how many times I have received advice about it,which is annoying.
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On what you are writing here we have to disagree to some point:
First I did not give you advice. I
asked you if you had tried ...
Second we are free to tell about what has helped us in our journey (I apologized for having forgotten that, so it is nothing to bring up again). If others will try to do "things" the way that has helped other members, they are free to do so or not to do so.
To give directly advice is not in my pot. With this I hope this discussion is over and that we can behave friendly toward each other when we happen to meet on the threads.
I have my own problems to solve and have no time for this ...
