I would be totally OK with it, although perhaps a little surprised because my SO rarely does things for other people. I would also be OK with not being told, unless it's something funny or interesting or has something to do with me. My SO loaning someone money has something to do with me. My SO giving someone a ride has nothing to do with me. My SO carrying someone out of a burning building has nothing to do with me but is interesting... I'll add, my SO and I aren't perfect, but we don't have any issues with trust or jealousy.


Would you say you have trust issues? And if so, do you have a reason to have them?