1) You could tell him that he really annoyed you when he said that. Tell him how it made you feel. He invalidated your very serious concerns. He brushed them off. That's a lousy way to feel. Holding back your feelings won't fix anything. They'll fester and your relationship with your T will suffer.

2) It's NEVER time to kill your therapist. When it gets that bad, it's time to check yourself into the hospital and when you get out, find a new therapist.

Slippers