I have GOT to disengage again. He is downplaying the fights we had and the insults he slung at me and is questioning how I can throw away a marriage over a few fights and one bad month. I finally just blurted out, yet again, that I no longer love him and that I don't wish to continue in the marriage.

He is trying to weaken me or my argument for divorcing. More manipulation. He is also trying to weaken my argument for not trusting anything he has to say.

He broke yet another promise to me - doesn't it make sense then that I conclude he is therefore, untrustworthy in all regards?

I told him to leave me alone and to stop talking about it - that I am not going to rehash the same points over and over again.

What a pain in the as* this is.