I agree - he just makes it far harder. I have to develop a thicker skin and stronger boundaries around him. I have to be strong. He tries to get in and at me in any way that he can, and he did yesterday by calling me crying. I feed into his manipulations and I fall for them, especially given what's happening with his mother. It's all just very hard on me.
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