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Originally Posted by Rive.
My significant other has no obligation to report to me regarding every single thing they do.
They are allowed to have a life, friends, do favours for other people etc. without having to report to me. What does it matter if the other person is single or not - is your partner not allowed to interact with single people? are they not allowed to interact with anyone unless they have your approval?
This seems extreme and pretty controlling behaviour.
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Well to all honesty we don’t know the issue. OP didn’t come back to clarify.
Maybe the person is a coworker but a favor is to spend the entire weekend helping this person to relocate.
My husband and I have zero jealousy or trust issues, but something that extensive and time consuming would need to be discussed. It wouldn’t be ok to make a plan to be away the whole weekend and not discuss with me. So I think it depends what’s the favor?
The reason I brought this example is I actually helped a coworker to move (not too far just in the area), that was years ago and I was single and so was he. My daughter was at her dads for the weekend. I had no obligations to report anything to anyone. We were coworkers and became friends. If I was married then, I’d most certainly discuss such plans with my spouse.