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Originally Posted by Have Hope
In a marriage, people should never be disrespectful, even when arguing. One must always consider the other person's perspective, to listen and to truly hear and validate your spouse's position or perspective. It is unfair & dirty fighting to sling insults, to yell, to demean or disrespect one's spouse in any argument. I hope you can treat your wife fairly when you argue. If it's difficult, maybe a counselor can help.
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I hope someone will say something like this to my wife. It's been hard to bear up under the disrespect... the times she doesn't consider my perspective, the times she is unfair and uses dirty fighting to sling insults, etc.
I'd like for her to talk to a counselor about it.... but she likes to pretend it's completely my fault. I've even considered divorce.